{"id":1457,"date":"2011-09-23T18:28:00","date_gmt":"2011-09-23T23:28:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/?p=1457"},"modified":"2011-10-13T09:32:06","modified_gmt":"2011-10-13T14:32:06","slug":"my-top-5-songs-to-cry-to","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/2011\/09\/23\/my-top-5-songs-to-cry-to\/","title":{"rendered":"My top 5 songs to cry to"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>What&#8217;s a fully stocked music library worth if it can&#8217;t give a little\u00a0catharsis?\u00a0<!--more--><\/p>\n<p><em>By <a href=\"http:\/\/www.twitter.com\/alex_garrison\" target=\"_blank\">Alex Garrison<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Heartbreak for a music lover means shacking up with a record player for the &#8220;I just want to feel bad for an hour&#8221; stage. And if time with a few friends helps, what&#8217;s the harm in a little self-indulgence? Here&#8217;s my go-to tracks.<\/p>\n<p>1. Neil Young \u2013 \u201cOn the Beach\u201d<br \/>\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/CKgj1FNToWY?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\"><\/iframe><br \/>\n<em>I need a crowd of people<br \/>\n<\/em><em>but I can\u2019t face them day to day.<br \/>\n<\/em><em>Though my problems are meaningless<br \/>\n<\/em><em>that don\u2019t make them go away.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Who knew the quintessential soundrack to 21<sup>st<\/sup>-century-twentysomething <a href=\"http:\/\/www.blackbird.vcu.edu\/v5n2\/poetry\/plath_s\/ennui.htm\" target=\"_blank\">ennui <\/a>was written in 1974? I did. \u201cOn the Beach\u201d is an incredibly sad song about nothingness, the scariest of emotions.<\/p>\n<p>2. Cat Power \u2013 \u201cColors and the Kids\u201d<br \/>\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/2J9at0yxVpI?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>In all my life of writing, I want nothing more than to have half the heartbreaking emotional genius Chan Marshall does in the line \u201cIt\u2019s so hard go to into the city \u2019cause you wanna say, \u2018hey, I love you\u2019 to everybody.\u201d I also want to look a quarter as <a href=\"http:\/\/cdn.pitchfork.com\/media\/cat_power-002.jpg\" target=\"_blank\">good as she does with a ponytail<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>3. Bon Iver \u2013 \u201cSkinny Love\u201d<br \/>\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ssdgFoHLwnk?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\"><\/iframe><br \/>\nI actually don\u2019t really like Bon Iver. Justin Vernon\u2019s smugness rubs me the wrong way and I don&#8217;t think he has anywhere near the talent to move past the indie-cred hype that was the real reason anyone ever cared to listen to <em>For Emma, Forever Ago. <\/em>Anyway, that being said, \u201cSkinny Love\u201d has been my top 25 most played since it came out. It\u2019s a phenomenally rare feat to effectively pull off emoting the desperation of heartbreak, and as much as the cannon of Sensitive White Boy music attempts to relate the crushing nature of failing to communicate, this song is one the very few that\u2019s truly successful.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">4. The Sonics \u2013 \u201cSince I Fell for You\u201d<br \/>\n<iframe src=\"http:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/ItZsHpNikIU?rel=0\" frameborder=\"0\" width=\"420\" height=\"315\"><\/iframe><br \/>\nI often quip that my favorite music genre is \u201cgut-wrenchingly sad, but in a major key.\u201d \u201cSince I Fell for You\u201d is an example of the close-second: Raucous, dissonant punk-garage rockers singing stinging, soulful 60s girl group pop.<\/p>\n<p>5. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.last.fm\/music\/The+Monks\/_\/Pretty+Suzanne+(Unreleased+Bonus+Track)\" target=\"_blank\">The Monks \u2013 \u201cPretty Suzanne\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Much in the same vein as No. 4, this is actually an unreleased track that only appeared on the CD reissue of this weird, highly ahead of its time <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/The_Monks#Albums\" target=\"_blank\">group of ex-GIs<\/a>. I can&#8217;t find the track fair-use posted to the interwebz, but trust me, the crooning &#8220;Why won&#8217;t you love me?&#8221; is is perfect heart-stabbing accompaniment to 3 minutes at 55 seconds of\u00a0indulgent\u00a0self-pity.<\/p>\n<p>What are yours? Share in the comments or email <a href=\"mailto:onlinecontent@kjhk.org\">onlinecontent@kjhk.org<\/a> and your post could appear on the site.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What&#8217;s a fully stocked music library worth if it can&#8217;t give a little\u00a0catharsis?\u00a0<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4332,"featured_media":1476,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[74,97,100,104,99,101,103,102,94,95,98,93,96],"class_list":["post-1457","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-music","tag-afternoon-listening","tag-bon-iver","tag-cat-power","tag-catharsis","tag-chan-marshall","tag-colors-and-the-kids","tag-neil-young","tag-on-the-beach","tag-pretty-suzanne","tag-since-i-fell-for-you","tag-skinny-love","tag-the-monks","tag-the-sonics"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/afternoonlistening.jpg","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1457","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4332"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1457"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1457\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1476"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1457"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1457"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1457"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}