{"id":77258,"date":"2021-04-14T08:00:00","date_gmt":"2021-04-14T13:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/?p=77258"},"modified":"2021-04-14T00:33:39","modified_gmt":"2021-04-14T05:33:39","slug":"gaypril-more-than-just-a-month","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kjhk.org\/web\/2021\/04\/14\/gaypril-more-than-just-a-month\/","title":{"rendered":"Gaypril \u2014 more than just a month"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h5 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Ellynn Mayo | @ELLYNNSPEAKS<\/h5>\n\n\n\n<p>Pride Month, which is usually held in June, starts April 1 here at the University of Kansas \u2014 the reason being that many students aren\u2019t on campus for the summer. Now as a non-binary, panromantic, and ace-spectrum student, I love Pride!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>But it\u2019s my freshman year, and experiencing Gaypril for the first time (in a global pandemic) is that much more exciting. I grew up not celebrating Pride at all until I got to attend once in my junior year of high school.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Last year\u2019s Pride month in July was spent behind closed doors. This was a big blow for the KCMO Pride Fest, which had just moved to Ilus Davis Park and City Hall. Kansas City hasn\u2019t had a Pride Parade since 2002 (consequently, the year I was born) because its cost.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Lawrence has a developing story. As recently as 2018, the Granada started holding what\u2019s known as Pride for the Masses. There was a small parade, and then the Granada invited queer artists to perform. Of course, its third year was canceled because of COVID-19 concerns as well.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I won\u2019t speak for all queer people, but for me, Pride is important because it\u2019s an outward expression of my identity that I don\u2019t always get to have everywhere else. If I hold hands with a girl in public, I get the occasional catcalls from men who fetishize queer couples. Or I get a grumpy adult calling me \u201cobscene\u201d or \u201cscandalous.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pride is a time for LGBTQ+ people to be surrounded by other people who share their identities, or who are allies for them. It\u2019s a safe place. It\u2019s a freeing place. So the impact of the pandemic has not only been stifling socially but also in terms of identity validation. That\u2019s why KU\u2019s Gaypril is such a reprieve for me \u2014 I get to celebrate my identity with other people my age, with my identity.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>This year, the Center for Sexuality and Gender Diversity (aka the Center) has a full lineup of Gaypril events.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Center had a drive-in showing of \u201cParis Is Burning\u201d on April 10 in the Lied Center parking lot. The film explicates the history of Voguing and of trans pride. These topics, in particular, are so important, especially now that we\u2019ve had limited interactions with LGBTQ+ Pride.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Big Gay Brunch will be today, April 14, from 10 a.m. to 1 p.m. with offerings for vegans (like me!), vegetarians, and those who require gluten-free options. I don\u2019t know if there\u2019s anything straighter than brunch, so personally, this is a fantastic idea. We\u2019re here, we\u2019re queer, and we eat brunch! 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font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; line-height:17px; margin-bottom:0; margin-top:8px; overflow:hidden; padding:8px 0 7px; text-align:center; text-overflow:ellipsis; white-space:nowrap;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/p\/CNnTlj4JktY\/?utm_source=ig_embed&amp;utm_campaign=loading\" style=\" color:#c9c8cd; font-family:Arial,sans-serif; font-size:14px; font-style:normal; font-weight:normal; line-height:17px; text-decoration:none;\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">A post shared by SGD at KU (@sgd.ku)<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p> <script async=\"\" src=\"\/\/www.instagram.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There\u2019s also a Queer Coffee Hour from 11-noon on April 20. I\u2019d recommend getting there early because seats fill up fast!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you or any Jayhawks you know are graduating and identify as part of the LGBQT+ community, be sure to attend Lavender Graduation on April 22 at 5 p.m. (virtually). This is a beautiful way to honor queer and trans folks at the university who have put in the work and can finally celebrate their accomplishments!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>And last, but <em>certainly<\/em> not least, we have Brown Bag Drive-In Drag, also held in the Lied Center parking lot. Tipping is digital, but the queens are not! I know I can\u2019t wait for this event on April 24. Doors open at 8 p.m. and the show starts at 8:30. I\u2019m drag-ging my friends to see this show with me. For more info on these events, go to the Center\u2019s <a href=\"https:\/\/sgd.ku.edu\/events-calendars\">Events<\/a> page.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I\u2019m sure most people \u2014 certainly most queer people \u2014 have seen the recent anti-trans laws cropping up in the media. These laws include things like <a href=\"https:\/\/www.kansascity.com\/news\/politics-government\/article250616244.html\">banning trans girls from girls\u2019 sports<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/2021\/04\/05\/984555637\/arkansas-governor-vetoes-anti-transgender-treatment-ban-for-minors\">banning gender-affirming care<\/a> for youth, including hormone blockers, which are not permanent, and requiring teachers to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.advocate.com\/transgender\/2021\/4\/07\/north-carolina-bill-would-force-school-staffers-out-trans-kids\">out trans children<\/a> to their parents. These laws are scary for the LGBTQ+ community.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The best thing we can do at a time like this is to find community. That\u2019s why it\u2019s so important to go to these events, to share them, to talk about them. Even if you don\u2019t go personally, expressing support for your queer peers can help one person feel less frightened and alone.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So I hope to see some Jayhawks at the drag show or sipping a mocktail at the Union in the coming weeks. Remember, you are loved.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Since most students aren&#8217;t on campus during Pride Month, in June, KU celebrates pride in April. 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